Today, we will talk about the road block, which is the place where most of us take action in life.
But taking action when you hit the road block is the absolute WORST habit you could fall into. It is the worst place to take action and make decisions from. I know this from personal experience and from helping thousands of people. This is just the worst place to be.
We get there routinely as a result of our own actions. So, I want to give you a foundation for understanding this behavior and moving past it.
What is the Road Block?
The road block is the place you reach when you simply can’t take it anymore. It is that LAST argument you have in your bad relationship, when you just can’t take it anymore. This is the place where you finally leave the bad relationship.
Or, it is that last time you let your boss tell you that you are a bad person and you finally quit. Or, that last bill that comes to make you realize you are so broke and need to find a job right NOW.
It is that LAST straw…
The problem is that most people do not take action in life until they reach their road block. The last bill comes, or the boss is mean for that one last time, and that is what FINALLY motivates them into action.
But, if you were conscious of this and if you understood that this is what the process is, you could go through life with a whole lot less suffering.
Instead of having the boss insult you a hundred times before losing your mind and quitting, you COULD leave after the second time. You could have avoided all the conversations that you had with all your friends about it, all the suffering and all the annoying conversations that you had with yourself.
People are creatures of habit.
If your boss is mean to you, you can obviously bring it up to him. But if they do not seem too open to take the coaching and change, then most likely they will just continue doing that thing.
If you are in a bad financial situation and you do not make a change right now, most likely you are only going to be in a WORSE financial situation down the road.
It is not that we are blind to these things. They are pretty obvious, actually. The problem is that our EGO does not want us to change. And if you’re wondering what is ego, then check out this video here.
Change is harder than NOT changing! So, we take the easy way out.
At the beginning, we think it’s fine. Then when it comes up again, we still think it’s fine. Then finally, you hit that road block where you can’t take it anymore!
This happens in everything. It happens with our weight. “I am getting a little fatter, no big deal. I am getting a little fatter, no big deal. I am getting a little fatter, no big deal. Oh, my God! I am SO fat! I can’t take this anymore!”
How to Improve Your Life – Take Action Before the Road Block!
The problem with waiting until you hit that road block is that you are now in your WORST position to make the positive change that you want for your life.
You now have the BIGGEST belly, or you are the POOREST you could possibly be comfortable with, or you’ve got the MEANEST boss you could possibly handle! The situation is now into its extreme, where life is basically forcing you into action.
If you had listened the first time you realized the problem and thought you should do something about it, it would have been SO much easier…
So, by consciously understanding that this road block system is the way that most of us function and the place where most of us take action in life, we can decide to take action well before the road block.
It will put you in SUCH a better position to make positive change in your life and to bring it to where you want it to be!
So, avoid the road block.
Do not even get close to the road block. Start making changes as soon as you get that first hint that there is something that you would like to change. Your life is going to be happier, more joyous, more successful, and more blessed than ever before.
That is the main advice from today! Please, if you have any questions or comments, join the conversation and comment below. I personally respond to every comment possible and would love to hear from you!
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To Your Success,