Today, we are going to be talking about what makes YOU happy.
Now, this advice is something that I got total clarity on from a very smart man named Dr David Gruder who I met at CEO space this past May. He’s an expert on integrities and possesses a doctorate in Psychology.
ICA – Impact, Connection, Authenticity
What he lectured on really resonated with me and actually unlocked the truth of the impact I’m looking to make on the planet. What he lectures about is that consistently happy people live at the crossroads between impact, authenticity, and connection.
So he drew a big circle on a pie chart and drew three sections to the big circle: authenticity, impact, and connection. The CONSISTENTLY happy people – people who feel happy everyday of their lives – they live in a healthy crossroad between those three things.
They know that these are the fundamental drivers of a human being because these drivers and the desire for these three things are present in EVERY child. That’s why it is the fundamentals for happiness.
It’s also why it’s the true depth of my life’s purpose. You see, when I see people unhappy, that’s what motivates me to action. I simply do not like seeing unhappy people.
Why would you be unhappy? You could be happy instead! If you don’t you’ll have a hard time dealing with death when it comes.
That’s what really drives me. I want to make as many happy, joyous people in the world as possible. I want to see a happy world.
The way people get happy is by living in a healthy balance between their authenticity, their connection, and their impact.
For me, this was really profound to learn because it was the first time I grasped exactly how to verbalize what it was that I did and the impact that I make in the world.
For those of you who have followed me for several years now doing confidence and dating advice for men, I even put out a DVD course called Authentic Seduction, which is about tapping into your authenticity and your true self so that you could go out and create the connection or relationships that you are looking to do.
So, I’ve already been tackling authenticity and connection and you know I’m all about being your full authentic expression, living your life’s passion, all of those things.
I’ve recently stepped into showing people how to make the impact in the world they would like to as well.
So if you haven’t yet, check out Get High Impact. Go there and look at my training webinar. It’s going to teach you as a heart-centered entrepreneur, how to make your unique and POWERFUL impact out in the world by teaching you step-by-step how to create your own online business that serves others.
The advice that I want you to get from this video is that if you are lacking in authenticity, in connection with others, or in making an impact in the world – whatever unique impact or dharma is – if you are lacking in any of those three areas, you will lack a consistent, happy life. You won’t have happiness if you are lacking in ANY of those areas.
So, where are you out of your authenticity? You need to clean that up. You need to open yourself to being your real TRUE self.
Where you are lacking in connection, you need to do the work. You need to heal yourself. You need to heal your heart so that it can open and connect with others.
Where you are lacking at impact, you need to assess:
“Are you living your life’s purpose? Are you living your passion?”
If not, definitely check out Get High Impact because that’s what it’s all about.
For all those other areas, keep following my videos. Check out Mastering Your Emotions, the three-part series that is also in my channel. That will teach you how to remove a LOT of emotional blockages so that you can open that heart, create the connection, and allow your authenticity.
But understand, the real advice that I want you to get is to see that authenticity, connection, and impact – the healthy balance between those three – is what is going to allow you to be happy.
So, I hope that there are some more happy people in the world as a result of this video.
If this makes sense to you, if you want to comment below, I would love to see your comment. Let me know how this has impacted you.
If there is an area of your life that you see is missing and you think that’s the reason you are not happy – if you are missing connection, impact, or authenticity – share what you are missing. Other people would let you know how to get that thing. Or, I will let you know how to go get that thing.
Let’s create a world of CONSISTENTLY happy people. It starts with us, right here, right now.
So, please comment below. Please like the video if you like it. Please subscribe to my channel. If you want to get some high impact in the world, go to Get High Impact.
Lastly, if you would like to further your awareness and become more conscious, go take a look at my Kriya Yoga page!
Thanks and talk soon!
To Your Success,